Kate Middleton attended Anzac Day services in London on April 25. She laid a wreath at the Cenotaph on behalf of King Charles. She went to Westminster Abbey and the press called it dignified, proper and officially significant.
Princess Anne also attended the Dawn Service at Wellington Arch. Because of course she did. Anne is still one of the monarchy’s most reliable workhorses, even in the years when King Charles edges her out on the engagement count.
Now here is the part that the palace media machine does not want you to connect. This all happened one week after Prince Harry and Meghan Sussex, completed their four-day independent visit to Australia. During that trip, Harry visited the Australian War Memorial in Canberra. Those military medals on his chest? Earned during a decade of service in the British Army. At the Australian War Memorial, he laid a wreath and attended the Last Post Ceremony. This was a veteran honouring Australian war dead.
Same Anzac Day tradition, Commonwealth and the act of remembrance. But the framing could not be more different if the palace wrote the scripts themselves.
The contrast is not subtle
Harry’s tribute came from a man who served. He wore his own medals. He stood at a memorial that honours the fallen, and he did it without a palace handler telling him where to stand or what to wear. The press called it “private.” “Independent.” “Not official.”
Kate’s tribute came from a woman who has never served a day in uniform. She wore a navy coat dress, predictable, controlled, institutionally approved. She laid a wreath on behalf of her father-in-law. And the press called it “royal duty” as if that word means more when it comes with a crown on the letterhead. To be clear: there is nothing wrong with Kate attending Anzac Day. She showed respect, and she performed her role.
But the timing was not accidental. Kensington Palace announced her Anzac Day plans on April 15, the same week Harry and Meghan were still in Australia, generating headlines. And People, ran the story with the subtext screaming: “See? The real royals are still here, and the real royals care about the Commonwealth. The real royals do things properly.”
Kensington Palace announced Princess Anne and Princess Kate’s plans to mark Anzac Day last week on April 15, when Prince Harry, 41, and Meghan, 44, were on a trip to Australia. The Duke and Duchess of Sussex spent four days there on a trip that mixed private, philanthropic and business outings, bringing them back to the continent for the first time since their 2018 royal tour.
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex stepped back from their royal roles in 2020, making their latest Australia trip an independent visit.
Prince Harry paid respects to Australian lives lost in conflict on April 15 when he visited the Australian War Memorial and attended the Last Post Ceremony at the site. King Charles’ younger son wore his military medals earned during his decade of service in the British Army to the memorial, where he laid a wreath.” – People
Service does not need palace approval to count
Here is the uncomfortable truth that the royal rota will never admit. Harry honoured Australian war dead as a veteran. Kate honoured them as a royal. Although both acts matter, only one came wrapped in palace approval.
Anzac Day commemorates the 1915 Gallipoli landings. The day exists to mark sacrifice – the sacrifice of the Australian and New Zealand Army Corps. Not to judge who wore the better coat dress. Not to crown which royal looked more “dignified” in a photo. Those are distractions, not remembrance. And it certainly should not be reduced to a contest over who loves Australia more.
But the palace-media ecosystem cannot help itself. Harry and Meghan do something independent? Cue the carefully staged official appearance. Australia gives them a warm welcome? Time for a wreath-laying in London. Headlines about the Sussexes? You can bet a Wales headline is right behind it. It is exhausting. And it is transparent.
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Final thoughts
The villain is the royal-media machine that keeps trying to frame Harry and Meghan’s independent work as lesser, as unofficial, as somehow not counting, while treating every palace-approved appearance as weightier, more legitimate, more real.
Harry wore his own medals. Kate wore a borrowed role. Both honoured service. Only one was treated as “properly royal.” Anzac Day belongs to the men and women who served and died. It does not belong to Royal Optics. And the palace’s desperate need to turn remembrance into a comparison says more about their insecurity than it does about Harry and Meghan.
The monarchy wants you to believe that duty is defined by protocol. Harry proved in Canberra that duty is defined by service. And one of those things cannot be bought or styled or managed, no matter how many navy coat dresses you own.
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