When Boris Johnson revealed in his memoir Unleashed that he was asked to persuade Prince Harry to stay in Britain, few saw it as part of a larger pattern. The former Prime Minister recalled being conscripted by Buckingham Palace to deliver a “manly pep talk” in January 2020 as the couple prepared to step back from royal duties.

That brief exchange, arranged during the UK-Africa Investment Summit, exposed how closely the royal household and government were aligned during the crisis the media discriminatingly coined “Megxit.” The effort failed. The next day, Harry left for Canada to rejoin Meghan and their son, Prince Archie. The episode revealed how far Britain’s leadership was willing to go to retain the Sussexes, not for sentiment, but for symbolism.

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A Matter Of Image And Influence

For a government facing post-Brexit fatigue and sluggish growth, national image has become a pressing concern. The Sussexes, through independent work, have shown how to command global attention without state backing.

Since leaving royal duties, they have built a record of measurable impact. The Invictus Games, founded by Prince Harry, continues to expand across continents. Their visit to Nigeria, at the invitation of the country’s military leadership, showcased a model of partnership rooted in respect and modern values. Meghan’s engagement in Colombia and Harry’s solidarity visit to Ukraine further underscored their reach. Each privately funded trip contrasted sharply with the scripted formality of official royal tours.

And let’s not forget Meghan’s show-stopping appearance at Paris Fashion Week, which dominated fashion headlines and set social media alight. Her surprise attendance to support her friend Pierpaolo Piccioli became the moment of the season, an image of quiet confidence that redefined the conversation around celebrity influence and style authority.

If the Sussexes can succeed on their own terms, why can’t the taxpayer-funded royals match their influence? The comparison may be uncomfortable for royalists, yet apt, like expecting the BBC to compete with Netflix, one bound by institution, the other powered by innovation.

The Wales Struggle to Match the Sussex Momentum

Meanwhile, the Prince and Princess of Wales have struggled to keep pace. Their 2022 Caribbean tour, intended to modernise the monarchy, was overshadowed by colonial imagery and public protests. The Earthshot Prize, launched with great promise, has lost momentum amid staff turnover and dwindling visibility. Kate’s early years campaign generated headlines but little policy traction, while the couple’s overseas schedule has narrowed almost entirely to ceremonial visits.

By comparison, the Sussexes’ command sustained global attention without taxpayer support. Their Netflix and Spotify ventures reached millions, while With Love, Meghan extended British cultural references to audiences far beyond the Commonwealth. When the Duchess mentioned Magic FM, the UK station gained international exposure it could never have bought.

Which begs the question: if the Sussexes can succeed on their own terms, why aren’t the taxpayer-funded royals achieving the same? The comparison may be unflattering, yet it fits. Expecting the monarchy to compete with the Sussexes’ agility is like comparing the BBC to Netflix, one bound by tradition, the other driven by innovation.

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Quiet Lobbying And Shifting Strategies

Reports from The Independent suggested that “private lobbying” around security arrangements might continue. Yet, when read alongside recent reporting from GB News and The Daily Mail, it seems the lobbying is not one-sided. Evidence now points to senior government figures and palace aides taking the initiative.

Prince Harry’s comments during his BBC interview in May reflected frustration rather than pursuit. He described the removal of his protection as “an establishment stitch-up,” implying institutional obstruction rather than a breakdown in communication. His later admission that he missed the UK but could not safely bring his family back underscored a stalemate, one that the government appears increasingly eager to ease.

Eden’s account, though framed as intrigue, corroborates a quieter truth: the establishment is watching, perhaps even courting, the Sussexes. His portrayal of “Project Thaw” unintentionally confirms that efforts to re-engage the couple are coming from within Britain’s own corridors of power. If true, it marks a striking reversal, proof that Brand Britain’s fortunes may now depend on those it once pushed aside.

“Project Thaw aims to melt that hostility, building on the perceived success of the Duke’s visit to Britain last month when he carried out charity engagements and, crucially, was invited to Clarence House for tea with King Charles. It was the first face-to-face meeting between father and son in 19 months. That was followed by a visit to Kyiv, where Harry just happened to arrive on the same train to the war-torn Ukrainian capital as the newly appointed Foreign Secretary, Yvette Cooper. I understand that Ms Cooper is among the Establishment figures who admire the Duke and want him to play a bigger part in public life. I can disclose that the next planned move in the plot — or ‘process,’ as their pals prefer to put it — is the couple’s first joint visit to Britain since they attended a charity engagement in September 2022, then stayed on for Queen Elizabeth’s funeral. ‘Meghan will return to Britain before the year is out,’ the friend tells me, adding jokingly that she will be ‘bearing humble pie.’” — Richard Eden, Daily Mail, October 9, 2025

The Power Of Soft Diplomacy

The irony is obvious. The Sussexes’ independence, once derided as rebellion, has made them more effective global figures. They have shown how to wield influence through collaboration, philanthropy, and media, without the burden of taxpayer funding.

Their success abroad highlights what traditional royal tours no longer achieve. Where official visits often prioritise pageantry, the Sussexes deliver measurable outcomes. Their ability to attract headlines, partnerships, and goodwill positions them as modern conduits of British soft power, even without formal titles or roles.

Whether the government formalises cooperation remains uncertain. However, the mood in Whitehall suggests a quiet awareness that exclusion has cost Britain more than it preserved.


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